Regal Inspiration: Prince William and Princess Kate
Beneath all of the pomp and circumstance of today’s Royal Wedding of Prince William and Princess Catherine, Duke & Duchess of Cambridge was a young, modern couple who made the wedding their own with grace and class.

Prince William & Princess Kate, the Duke & Duchess of Cambridge
It began with Kate’s request that ladies wear hats and oh the fascinators were out in all of their glory! Watching the guests arrive was nothing short of watching the red carpet on Oscar’s Night. And did you see David and Victoria Beckham?! Becks was a dapper showstopper in his mourning coat – the camera’s couldn’t stop going back to him.

The ever-so-stylish Beckhams

Classic elegance by Mother of the Bride Carole Middleton, The Queen and Step-Mother of the Groom Camilla
Kate wore a classically elegant and beautiful dress reminiscent of Princess Grace (actress Grace Kelly) by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen and carried a modest bouquet. According to the royal press release, “The bouquet is a shield-shaped wired bouquet of myrtle, lily-of-the-valley, sweet William and hyacinth. The bouquet was designed by Shane Connolly and draws on the traditions of flowers of significance for the Royal Family, the Middleton family and on the Language of Flowers.” Kate also looked beautiful wearing a borrowed vintage Cartier halo tiara given to Queen Elizabeth by the Queen Mother on her 18th birthday.

Kate Middleton entering Westminster Abbey wearing Sara Burton for McQueen reflected her own personal style. Simple, classic and elegant.
William looked absolutely regal in his scarlet red uniform of Colonel of the Irish Guards topped with a blue sash. The royal wedding party stylishly mimicked the bride and groom with Prince Harry in his military uniform and bucking tradition, sister of the bride and maid of honor Pippa wearing an ivory gown. I thought it was a stunning move and I bet we’ll be seeing this again!

Prince Will to his father-in-law, "We were just supposed to have a small family affair."

Maid of Honor and Sister of the Bride, Pippa Middleton escorts the flower girls

A Historic first - TWO balcony kisses!
The trees lining the halls of Westminster Abbey were Canadian Maples brought in to honor the Commonwealth of Canada (Oh Canada! My home and native land…)
In a dramatic twist Prince William did the first wardrobe change and switched to his blue RAF flight lieutenant’s uniform for the couple’s stylish and historic getaway driving his Dad’s, Prince Charles, Astin Martin (I’m sure all you grooms out there are having car envy!!) The couple enjoyed some quiet time to themselves before rejoining the festivities.

Today Prince William was the envy of every gent. He got the Princess & the Astin Martin!
The Queen’s reception following the wedding is only the first party of the day and will feature an 8-tiered regal bridal fruit cake AND a chocolate biscuit Groom’s cake (the groom’s favorite).

The Royal Wedding Cake
Royal Wedding style takeaways:
- Honor tradition, but make your wedding your own in small details. Those small nods to your personal style will really stand out.
- Give your guests direction with wedding attire, be it traditional or fun Destination Wedding twists like “gentlemen in Tropical Shirts, ladies in sundresses and bejeweled flip flops” or ask your guests to dress in shades of your wedding color. Make your guests a part of the décor. (Result: really great wedding images!!)
- Channel your inner-Princess with a vintage tiara http://www.vintagetiarasbyjuliabeazley.com/Home.html
- Switch up your processional from the American tradition of having the bridesmaids and bridal party walk ahead of the bride and make a royal entrance with them trailing you. This is actually a great idea on the beach where often wedding dress trains can snag or pick up “hitchhikers” along the way.
- Go Green! See former SunCelebrity Hollis’ Princess Perfect Destination Wedding on St Croix – Perhaps Princess Kate stole some of her fairytale style?!
- Build in a little quiet time after the ceremony just to yourselves in order to center yourselves and truly be in the moment.
- Throw your groom a bone and include a Groom’s cake of his choosing – or surprise him with one in his favorite flavor. Afterall, its his wedding too!
Cruise Ship Weddings
I simply love cruise ship weddings – they are so incredibly festive. Whether its a couple cruising on a romantic weddingmoon or a couple joined by family and friends, everyone is so full of joy and excitement! Its such a thrill when I arrive at the Frederiksted Pier in the morning to welcome the wedding couple and begin to share with them our beautiful island. The Frederiksted waterfront is always bustling and alive on cruise ship mornings and I always make sure I’m there early enough to hit my favorite spot – Polly’s at the Pier - for a quick cup of coffee.
Since cruising couples have a shortened time on the island – first we meet them and escort them directly to the Superior Court to have them sworn in for their Marriage License, then its straight on to the ceremony spot. I find that most of our brides take advantage of the onboard spas prior to meeting with me and always look wedding day perfect!
By hiring a wedding planner for your Cruise ship wedding, you ensure that even with a tight schedule things run smoothly and you simply enjoy your special day. We carefully craft timelines that get you where you need to be, when you need to be there. We coordinate the Officiant, photographer and transportation so that all you need to do is slip into your wedding day attire and walk down the aisle. We even offer customized packages for short receptions. The beauty of having someone who lives in your port is that we know what locations are going to be crowded with fellow passengers and which spots may be a little more quiet and romantic. We also know how long it takes to get from point A to point B and all the little nuances in between.
If you are visiting St Croix on a cruise ship and want to get married while you’re here – Contact Us Today – or view some of our Elope packages to get you started. We are always available to offer a custom quote for couples who want a little more.
To see some of the Cruise Ship Weddings we’ve done – check out:
Jenny and Randy :: Feb 2, 2011 visiting aboard the Royal Caribbean Serenade of the Seas
Jocielyn & Steve :: Dec 8, 2009 visiting aboard the Celebrity Millenium
To register or not – that is the question!
Particularly for destination weddings, it is a nice idea to register for wedding gifts in advance. This gives your guests some no-brainer options (which they most often appreciate) for your wedding gift and also ensures that you don’t end up with things that you just don’t need. Nowadays so many couples live together prior to the wedding and have already set up a home. This actually makes it tougher for your guests to know “what to give”.
So, do them a favor and shop in advance for your own gifts by registering online with your favorite retailer. Registering online is easy and fun – afterall you are shopping without spending $$
Be sure to include information on your registries (yes, you can sign up for more than one) in your invitations (and don’t forget usernames and passwords if needed) *and* on your wedding website! (I can’t stress enough how invaluable wedding websites are)
… Here are a few ideas/suggestions for some alternative registry options as well:
> Honeymoon Registries
A growing trend, particularly for couples who ALREADY have two toasters and plenty of blenders. We like Traveler’s Joy You simply set up an account, choose your options and guests can help to fund your parasailing, jet skiing and dining delights.
Why we like it: They have one of the lowest fees in the industry at 7.5%; no set up fee and no guest fee. What this means is that you will not be charged anything to set up the account, your guests won’t be charged anything, but when you cash out for your honeymoon Traveler’s Joy will keep $7.50 of every $100 for their services. Not bad, right?!
Visit Traveler’s Joy for Honeymoon Tips
*Hot Tip* :: Have an Island-themed “Jack & Jill” shower to get in the Destination Wedding mood and let your guests know in advance that you have a honeymoon registry! This is also a great way to celebrate with friends and loved ones who may not be able to make the trip.
> Be Charitable
Some couples simply have enough “stuff” and don’t really want more nor do they want their guests to feel obligated to purchase anything for them. However, some guests really feel compelled to offer a gift of some sort, so why not support a charitable cause that you feel strongly about?
The I Do Foundation is an EXCELLENT resource. You can set up a registry here offering an easy way for your guests to celebrate your new life together with the cause of your choice. The website is also full of ideas for ways to be more charitable and eco-consious in all of your wedding planning.
Another great idea: Make a charitable donation INSTEAD of favors at your wedding and then print a note on placecards.
Example: In June of 2009, Rose & Jeff, both physicians, got married here on St Croix. On the table were placecards with guests’ names and a note: In lieu of favors we have made a donation to ‘Doctors without Borders’
> Some of my favorite Gift Registries
I’ve included links directly to the registry pages for you to easily set things up:
Do you have a favorite registry that you think other brides would love? Let us know and we’ll add it to the list!
Travel Tips from a savvy stranded Traveler
Happy New Year everyone!!

My New Year's Eve travel delay was made a little better with freshly steamed Maine Lobster and Legal Seafood Clam Chowder for dinner with family!
I hope that everyone had an excellent time celebrating the dawn of 2011. I had the unexpected pleasure of spending it with family which was really nice, however it was the result of a travel delay returning from the Boston area (did you hear about the day-after-Christmas Blizzard?! Well, my delay was mechanical but further complicated by the week of excessive cancellations and delays). My personal experience wasn’t too bad, I was able to go back to my mother’s home and start over the next day which so many were not able to do. I’m a pretty savvy traveler and requested to be rebooked the next day after spending 5 1/2 hours waiting to find out if the plane would ever take off … and knowing that there was little to no chance I would catch my connecting flight in San Juan to St Croix… did you know you can do that?! So, it inspired me to blog about my experience and offer some tips from a seasoned traveler and destination wedding planner.
I seem to have had “challenging” luck when travelling over the past year and a half. Over the past 4 times I have travelled home from Boston to St Croix, I’ve been over-nighted somewhere 3 times. And once the year before that. Thankfully, this isn’t as prevalent as it sounds, I just seem to be “lucky” (hey universe, I’d prefer the lottery kind of luck, thank you). The first time in 2009 was a mechanical or scheduling issue in San Juan (the airline covered hotel and food); the second was Dec 29, 2009 when the entire San Juan airport was shut down due to volcanic ash from Montserrat (a nearby volcanic island); the third was in April, major storms that caused tornadoes and severe damage were passing through the Miami airspace as we were supposed to land… we were diverted and the delays caused me to miss my connection; Dec 31, 2010 our plane had mechanical issues.
Because of my extensive experience with delays, frequency of travel and being affiliated with the travel industry I have a few very important tips to pass along:
- Insurance, Insurance – use it! I fly American Airlines whenever I can www.aa.com (I like to stick with one airline and rack up the mileage). When booking a ticket online, it always asks me before finalizing my purchase if I want to add the optional insurance. I didn’t used to purchase, though its typically only about $30, I do now after having been out hundreds of dollars on hotel rooms. If your trip is delayed or cancelled due to weather – you are responsible for any expenses or losses NOT the airline. Think about it, they would go out of business in a day… they can’t control the weather and have a vested interest in keeping us safe. So, every time you travel, you are taking a gamble that the weather all along your flight path will be good for flying. By adding the optional insurance, if you have a weather delay and need to overnight somewhere, you may be out of pocket that night, but insurance will reimburse you up to a certain amount. (read the fine print before purchasing; Know what’s covered and what’s not; Make your own informed decision). Some credit cards that you use may also have built-in travel insurance, so check that out as well. I have an AAdvantage Card that has some perks for me when I use it to book airfare.
- If booking an expensive vacation, destination wedding or cruise… check out cruise insurance or wedding insurance (I recommend www.wedsafe.com ) and travel to the destination at least 1 day ahead of time. Sadly on the past two of my delays, I was among many passengers travelling to catch a cruise that day. They didn’t make it. At that point they had two choices, rebook to the ship’s next port of call and get on board there or head home. Those that didn’t have insurance were simply out of luck and out of money, a lot of money. Don’t take that chance! If you are travelling for a destination wedding be very mindful of Marriage License requirements. On St Croix, you MUST be sworn in at the Superior Court prior to your wedding to make it legal. They are only open M-F and are closed on MANY holidays. This is one of the critical reasons to hire a wedding planner – be sure you are able to be sworn in and make it legal. Consult with your wedding planner PRIOR to booking air and arrive a day or two ahead of time, particularly in the winter months when travel is more likely to be delayed.
- Be informed! Know your rights! When I have been delayed, each time I IMMEDIATELY went up to the flight desk and inquired about a new routing to get me to my destination. On my most recent delay, our flight was repeatedly delayed. After the second delay, I calculated our arrival time in San Juan (I have the AA app on my iPhone which is really useful when traveling) and realized that there was little to no chance of me making my connection. It was New Year’s Eve and I knew my choices were being over-nighted alone in San Juan or going home to my family’s house and starting over the next day. I opted for the latter even though I did have trip insurance that would reimburse my hotel room. (and it was a mechanical issue, so the airline was also responsible for hotel). I went up to the flight desk and requested to be rebooked the next day. I was polite and patient (unlike many fellow travelers who were understandably frustrated) and was even given a complementary upgrade to business class.
- Carry on essentials and overnight items! If you are travelling for a destination wedding, always pack any wedding essentials (shoes, under garments, bride and groom wedding attire, jewelry) in your carry-on and carry on your dress. When boarding, ask the flight attendants to hang your dress in the first-class cabin (they are always happy to oblige). And be sure to pack pajamas, a swim suit (if headed to a warm destination) and a change of clothes. That way if you are over-nighted, you are prepared. Additionally, its not unusual during times of heavy air travel for your baggage to arrive later to your destination than you. By having the essentials and at least a days worth of backup, you can avoid undue stress and roll with it if your things are delayed.
- Remember the 3-1-1 Rule http://www.tsa.gov/311/ Each passenger may carry-on liquids (this includes lip gloss and mascara ladies!) of 3oz or less, packed in a transparent 1-quart zip lock or similar see-thru cosmetic bag, 1 per passenger. Additionally, when you hit the security screening line, take out your transparent bag and put it in a bin on top of your things. (take off your jacket and your shoes, take out any laptops in advance as well – this will speed you through the line). I have a bag that I keep in my carry-on that is pre-loaded with sample sizes of things I need that I collect throughout the year (free gift with purchase samples are perfect for this). That way when I travel I am ready to go and travel efficiently. Remember that if you carry-on larger bottles (like full-sized shampoo) they WILL take it away from you.
- Be prepared, Be Informed and Be Patient! You will reduce your own travel stress level if you have thought ahead, packed smartly and have all of your travel and insurance info in-hand. Be sure to know your rights as a traveler and your responsibilities. (You are responsible for asking for “stranded traveler hotel rates”, calling the airline or going to the flight desk to request a rerouting, etc) Speak up if you are delayed and if you feel the flight desk isn’t helping you, call the airlines 800# for assistance (you can do that to begin with too). Be patient with flight attendants and flight desk personnel. They are often dealing with numerous agitated and frustrated travelers who take their frustration and confusion out on them. The weather and mechanical issues are not their fault. And though they are in customer service and are supposed to deal with these issues, they are human too. A kind word and some understanding can go a long way to getting you to your destination. Be kind, be gracious and you can be assured they will do the best they can do for you.




