Regal Inspiration: Prince William and Princess Kate
Beneath all of the pomp and circumstance of today’s Royal Wedding of Prince William and Princess Catherine, Duke & Duchess of Cambridge was a young, modern couple who made the wedding their own with grace and class.
Prince William & Princess Kate, the Duke & Duchess of Cambridge
It began with Kate’s request that ladies wear hats and oh the fascinators were out in all of their glory! Watching the guests arrive was nothing short of watching the red carpet on Oscar’s Night. And did you see David and Victoria Beckham?! Becks was a dapper showstopper in his mourning coat – the camera’s couldn’t stop going back to him.
Princesses Eugenie & Beatrice
The ever-so-stylish Beckhams
Classic elegance by Mother of the Bride Carole Middleton, The Queen and Step-Mother of the Groom Camilla
Kate wore a classically elegant and beautiful dress reminiscent of Princess Grace (actress Grace Kelly) by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen and carried a modest bouquet. According to the royal press release, “The bouquet is a shield-shaped wired bouquet of myrtle, lily-of-the-valley, sweet William and hyacinth. The bouquet was designed by Shane Connolly and draws on the traditions of flowers of significance for the Royal Family, the Middleton family and on the Language of Flowers.” Kate also looked beautiful wearing a borrowed vintage Cartier halo tiara given to Queen Elizabeth by the Queen Mother on her 18th birthday.
Kate Middleton entering Westminster Abbey wearing Sara Burton for McQueen reflected her own personal style. Simple, classic and elegant.
William looked absolutely regal in his scarlet red uniform of Colonel of the Irish Guards topped with a blue sash. The royal wedding party stylishly mimicked the bride and groom with Prince Harry in his military uniform and bucking tradition, sister of the bride and maid of honor Pippa wearing an ivory gown. I thought it was a stunning move and I bet we’ll be seeing this again!
Prince Will to his father-in-law, "We were just supposed to have a small family affair."
Maid of Honor and Sister of the Bride, Pippa Middleton escorts the flower girls
The dashing Princes
A Historic first - TWO balcony kisses!
The trees lining the halls of Westminster Abbey were Canadian Maples brought in to honor the Commonwealth of Canada (Oh Canada! My home and native land…)
In a dramatic twist Prince William did the first wardrobe change and switched to his blue RAF flight lieutenant’s uniform for the couple’s stylish and historic getaway driving his Dad’s, Prince Charles, Astin Martin (I’m sure all you grooms out there are having car envy!!) The couple enjoyed some quiet time to themselves before rejoining the festivities.
Today Prince William was the envy of every gent. He got the Princess & the Astin Martin!
The Queen’s reception following the wedding is only the first party of the day and will feature an 8-tiered regal bridal fruit cake AND a chocolate biscuit Groom’s cake (the groom’s favorite).
The Royal Wedding Cake
Royal Wedding style takeaways:
- Honor tradition, but make your wedding your own in small details. Those small nods to your personal style will really stand out.
- Give your guests direction with wedding attire, be it traditional or fun Destination Wedding twists like “gentlemen in Tropical Shirts, ladies in sundresses and bejeweled flip flops” or ask your guests to dress in shades of your wedding color. Make your guests a part of the décor. (Result: really great wedding images!!)
- Channel your inner-Princess with a vintage tiara http://www.vintagetiarasbyjuliabeazley.com/Home.html
- Switch up your processional from the American tradition of having the bridesmaids and bridal party walk ahead of the bride and make a royal entrance with them trailing you. This is actually a great idea on the beach where often wedding dress trains can snag or pick up “hitchhikers” along the way.
- Go Green! See former SunCelebrity Hollis’ Princess Perfect Destination Wedding on St Croix – Perhaps Princess Kate stole some of her fairytale style?!
- Build in a little quiet time after the ceremony just to yourselves in order to center yourselves and truly be in the moment.
- Throw your groom a bone and include a Groom’s cake of his choosing – or surprise him with one in his favorite flavor. Afterall, its his wedding too!
In Honor of Earth Day
In honor of Earth Day, I thought a post about trees would be appropriate. Especially this tree…
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I have always had a fascination with big, beautiful trees having grown up in New England. Working at the Institute for American Indian Studies in Washington, CT furthered that love and reverence for the giants of the forest. There we taught a class on the many uses and significance of various trees to the Woodland Indians of New England: green Birch tree branches used for tooth brushes, splits of the mighty Ash Tree woven into marvelous baskets, White Birch bark for wigwams, canoes and buckets, etc. However, recently I “stumbled” across a truly majestic tree in St Croix that really captivated me – the mighty Kapok at Villa Greenleaf.
The Kapok (Ceiba pentandra) or Silk Cotton tree is indigenous to the rainforests of South America and is now spread throughout the Caribbean, West Africa and even as far as the Malay Peninsula and Indonesian archipelago. Pollinated by bats, the tree sheds its leaves during the dry winter months with leaves and white or pink flowers remerging during the wetter spring months. It produces brown seed pods that contain a fibrous, fluffy white material that is 8-times lighter than cotton and 5-times more buoyant than cork. Before synthetics, the fibers were used in pillows, mattresses and because it is water-proof, were used in flotation devices. The leaves and bark can be used medicinally to cure a variety of ailments, including Type II diabetes. The Kapok’s straight trunk is supported by huge beautiful buttresses that can extend out 30-feet, surround the trunk and are covered with spikes protecting the otherwise smooth bark. Kapoks can exceed heights of 150 feet.
The Mayans revered the Ceiba (say-bah) as the tree of life whose roots extended to the underworld and branches reached up to support the heavens. It was used to make large and sturdy, sea-worthy canoes that allowed them to travel from island to island. In West Indian culture, this mighty behemoth was considered a sacred spirit tree. Referred to as the “God Tree”, “Devil Tree” or “Jumbie Tree” it is believed to be inhabited by spirits. Cutting down a Kapok would release the spirits and the culprit would be haunted for years.
Known as the “jumbie tree” to many natives, the kapok has long been considered a primary spirit tree of the West Indies. With its huge buttressed roots and gargantuan dimensions the kapok can’t help but draw the eye and fire the imagination. “In a traditional environment devoid of man-made wonders such as towers and temples, obelisks, and so forth,” writes Nicholls, “a ficus or kapok would stand out and it is not so surprising that these trees were identified as spirit trees.” Kapok trees were considered a holding place for departed souls and a place where the living could meet the dead. Eggs were thrown at certain kapoks that were known to be spirit trees in order to free a person’s shadow or soul that had been stolen by a jumbie. – Professor Robert W. Nicholls, University of the Virgin Islands
The incredible Kapok that anchors the property and is the logo symbol of Villa Greenleaf on St Croix has been estimated by experts to be approximately 350 years old making it one of the oldest and largest trees in the US Virgin Islands. Lovingly and carefully attended to, the tree’s breathtaking beauty can be marveled at while enjoying breakfast at the Villa/Bed and Breakfast. It’s been the subject of many artists and on your next visit to Villa Greenleaf I’m sure you’ll discover why.
Monkey No Climb!
Villa Greenleaf is a Bed & Breakfast nestled into the hills of Montpellier on St Croix. The property boasts 5 upscale accommodations, beautifully appointed with casual West Indian-style furnishings and each with its own private screen porch and rooftop sun deck. The villa pool overlooks a sweeping view of Judith’s Fancy & Salt River and out to the Caribbean Sea. Common areas offer plenty of opportunity for outdoor entertaining and the meticulously manicured grounds provide a classic Caribbean setting. Villa Greenleaf can also be booked as a private villa accommodating 10 guests and is the perfect setting for Executive Meetings, Family and Leisure Groups and Weddings. Contact us for more details!
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Particularly for destination weddings, it is a nice idea to register for wedding gifts in advance. This gives your guests some no-brainer options (which they most often appreciate) for your wedding gift and also ensures that you don’t end up with things that you just don’t need. Nowadays so many couples live together prior to the wedding and have already set up a home. This actually makes it tougher for your guests to know “what to give”.
So, do them a favor and shop in advance for your own gifts by registering online with your favorite retailer. Registering online is easy and fun – afterall you are shopping without spending $$
Be sure to include information on your registries (yes, you can sign up for more than one) in your invitations (and don’t forget usernames and passwords if needed) *and* on your wedding website! (I can’t stress enough how invaluable wedding websites are)
… Here are a few ideas/suggestions for some alternative registry options as well:
> Honeymoon Registries
A growing trend, particularly for couples who ALREADY have two toasters and plenty of blenders. We like Traveler’s Joy You simply set up an account, choose your options and guests can help to fund your parasailing, jet skiing and dining delights.
Why we like it: They have one of the lowest fees in the industry at 7.5%; no set up fee and no guest fee. What this means is that you will not be charged anything to set up the account, your guests won’t be charged anything, but when you cash out for your honeymoon Traveler’s Joy will keep $7.50 of every $100 for their services. Not bad, right?!
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*Hot Tip* :: Have an Island-themed “Jack & Jill” shower to get in the Destination Wedding mood and let your guests know in advance that you have a honeymoon registry! This is also a great way to celebrate with friends and loved ones who may not be able to make the trip.
> Be Charitable
Some couples simply have enough “stuff” and don’t really want more nor do they want their guests to feel obligated to purchase anything for them. However, some guests really feel compelled to offer a gift of some sort, so why not support a charitable cause that you feel strongly about?
The I Do Foundation is an EXCELLENT resource. You can set up a registry here offering an easy way for your guests to celebrate your new life together with the cause of your choice. The website is also full of ideas for ways to be more charitable and eco-consious in all of your wedding planning.
Another great idea: Make a charitable donation INSTEAD of favors at your wedding and then print a note on placecards.
Example: In June of 2009, Rose & Jeff, both physicians, got married here on St Croix. On the table were placecards with guests’ names and a note: In lieu of favors we have made a donation to ‘Doctors without Borders’
> Some of my favorite Gift Registries
I’ve included links directly to the registry pages for you to easily set things up:
Do you have a favorite registry that you think other brides would love? Let us know and we’ll add it to the list!
Travel Tips from a savvy stranded Traveler
Happy New Year everyone!!
My New Year's Eve travel delay was made a little better with freshly steamed Maine Lobster and Legal Seafood Clam Chowder for dinner with family!
I hope that everyone had an excellent time celebrating the dawn of 2011. I had the unexpected pleasure of spending it with family which was really nice, however it was the result of a travel delay returning from the Boston area (did you hear about the day-after-Christmas Blizzard?! Well, my delay was mechanical but further complicated by the week of excessive cancellations and delays). My personal experience wasn’t too bad, I was able to go back to my mother’s home and start over the next day which so many were not able to do. I’m a pretty savvy traveler and requested to be rebooked the next day after spending 5 1/2 hours waiting to find out if the plane would ever take off … and knowing that there was little to no chance I would catch my connecting flight in San Juan to St Croix… did you know you can do that?! So, it inspired me to blog about my experience and offer some tips from a seasoned traveler and destination wedding planner.
I seem to have had “challenging” luck when travelling over the past year and a half. Over the past 4 times I have travelled home from Boston to St Croix, I’ve been over-nighted somewhere 3 times. And once the year before that. Thankfully, this isn’t as prevalent as it sounds, I just seem to be “lucky” (hey universe, I’d prefer the lottery kind of luck, thank you). The first time in 2009 was a mechanical or scheduling issue in San Juan (the airline covered hotel and food); the second was Dec 29, 2009 when the entire San Juan airport was shut down due to volcanic ash from Montserrat (a nearby volcanic island); the third was in April, major storms that caused tornadoes and severe damage were passing through the Miami airspace as we were supposed to land… we were diverted and the delays caused me to miss my connection; Dec 31, 2010 our plane had mechanical issues.
Because of my extensive experience with delays, frequency of travel and being affiliated with the travel industry I have a few very important tips to pass along:
- Insurance, Insurance – use it! I fly American Airlines whenever I can www.aa.com (I like to stick with one airline and rack up the mileage). When booking a ticket online, it always asks me before finalizing my purchase if I want to add the optional insurance. I didn’t used to purchase, though its typically only about $30, I do now after having been out hundreds of dollars on hotel rooms. If your trip is delayed or cancelled due to weather – you are responsible for any expenses or losses NOT the airline. Think about it, they would go out of business in a day… they can’t control the weather and have a vested interest in keeping us safe. So, every time you travel, you are taking a gamble that the weather all along your flight path will be good for flying. By adding the optional insurance, if you have a weather delay and need to overnight somewhere, you may be out of pocket that night, but insurance will reimburse you up to a certain amount. (read the fine print before purchasing; Know what’s covered and what’s not; Make your own informed decision). Some credit cards that you use may also have built-in travel insurance, so check that out as well. I have an AAdvantage Card that has some perks for me when I use it to book airfare.
- If booking an expensive vacation, destination wedding or cruise… check out cruise insurance or wedding insurance (I recommend www.wedsafe.com ) and travel to the destination at least 1 day ahead of time. Sadly on the past two of my delays, I was among many passengers travelling to catch a cruise that day. They didn’t make it. At that point they had two choices, rebook to the ship’s next port of call and get on board there or head home. Those that didn’t have insurance were simply out of luck and out of money, a lot of money. Don’t take that chance! If you are travelling for a destination wedding be very mindful of Marriage License requirements. On St Croix, you MUST be sworn in at the Superior Court prior to your wedding to make it legal. They are only open M-F and are closed on MANY holidays. This is one of the critical reasons to hire a wedding planner – be sure you are able to be sworn in and make it legal. Consult with your wedding planner PRIOR to booking air and arrive a day or two ahead of time, particularly in the winter months when travel is more likely to be delayed.
- Be informed! Know your rights! When I have been delayed, each time I IMMEDIATELY went up to the flight desk and inquired about a new routing to get me to my destination. On my most recent delay, our flight was repeatedly delayed. After the second delay, I calculated our arrival time in San Juan (I have the AA app on my iPhone which is really useful when traveling) and realized that there was little to no chance of me making my connection. It was New Year’s Eve and I knew my choices were being over-nighted alone in San Juan or going home to my family’s house and starting over the next day. I opted for the latter even though I did have trip insurance that would reimburse my hotel room. (and it was a mechanical issue, so the airline was also responsible for hotel). I went up to the flight desk and requested to be rebooked the next day. I was polite and patient (unlike many fellow travelers who were understandably frustrated) and was even given a complementary upgrade to business class.
- Carry on essentials and overnight items! If you are travelling for a destination wedding, always pack any wedding essentials (shoes, under garments, bride and groom wedding attire, jewelry) in your carry-on and carry on your dress. When boarding, ask the flight attendants to hang your dress in the first-class cabin (they are always happy to oblige). And be sure to pack pajamas, a swim suit (if headed to a warm destination) and a change of clothes. That way if you are over-nighted, you are prepared. Additionally, its not unusual during times of heavy air travel for your baggage to arrive later to your destination than you. By having the essentials and at least a days worth of backup, you can avoid undue stress and roll with it if your things are delayed.
- Remember the 3-1-1 Rule http://www.tsa.gov/311/ Each passenger may carry-on liquids (this includes lip gloss and mascara ladies!) of 3oz or less, packed in a transparent 1-quart zip lock or similar see-thru cosmetic bag, 1 per passenger. Additionally, when you hit the security screening line, take out your transparent bag and put it in a bin on top of your things. (take off your jacket and your shoes, take out any laptops in advance as well – this will speed you through the line). I have a bag that I keep in my carry-on that is pre-loaded with sample sizes of things I need that I collect throughout the year (free gift with purchase samples are perfect for this). That way when I travel I am ready to go and travel efficiently. Remember that if you carry-on larger bottles (like full-sized shampoo) they WILL take it away from you.
- Be prepared, Be Informed and Be Patient! You will reduce your own travel stress level if you have thought ahead, packed smartly and have all of your travel and insurance info in-hand. Be sure to know your rights as a traveler and your responsibilities. (You are responsible for asking for “stranded traveler hotel rates”, calling the airline or going to the flight desk to request a rerouting, etc) Speak up if you are delayed and if you feel the flight desk isn’t helping you, call the airlines 800# for assistance (you can do that to begin with too). Be patient with flight attendants and flight desk personnel. They are often dealing with numerous agitated and frustrated travelers who take their frustration and confusion out on them. The weather and mechanical issues are not their fault. And though they are in customer service and are supposed to deal with these issues, they are human too. A kind word and some understanding can go a long way to getting you to your destination. Be kind, be gracious and you can be assured they will do the best they can do for you.
Best Behavior for Brides and Bridesmaids
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Most every lady has been there – either as a bridesmaid dealing with a bridezilla, or as a bride disappointed by an uninvolved, unenthused bridesmaid. Neither party is necessarily to blame, but when the most important day in a girl’s life is at stake, the pressure is on for everyone to smile and everything to run smoothly. Miscommunication, false expectations, and feelings of burden or obligation, can call lead to shaky situations within bridal parties.
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- Getting ready together (photo by Quiana Duncan).
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- My amazing maid of honor fluffing my train (photo by Quiana Duncan).
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- My beautiful bridesmaids on the patio of our shared suite, wearing their complementary dresses and matching hook bracelets (photo by Quiana Duncan).
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- My bridesmaids wearing their matching tops at our bridal brunch the morning of my wedding day. They are pictured with me, my Mom and my husband’s Mom.
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- The amazing keepsake box my maid of honor handmade, given to me at my bridal brunch (photo provided by Bridesmaid Becca Thom).
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- My lovely bridesmaids on the beach at our wedding rehearsal (photo provided by Bridesmaid Becca Thom).
I have heard countless horror stories . . . I had a friend so embarrassed by her bridesmaid dress, that she carried a cocktail dress in her purse to change into the moment professional wedding photos were finished. A friend of a friend who was a graduate student at the time, had to set-up a yearlong payment plan with the bride’s family to repay them for the designer bridesmaid dress chosen for her by the bride. It goes without saying that in both these cases, the bride and bridesmaid were not the best of friends after the wedding.
As a recent bride and event planner turned wedding professional, I thought I would share some ideas on how to keep everyone happy and foster even stronger friendships after the wedding.
How brides can make their bridesmaids happy . . .
For my wedding in St Croix earlier this year, I included bridal party accommodations in my wedding budget. Footing the bill for a bridal suite not only lessened my bridesmaids’ travel expenses, but provided a slumber party-like environment for us to bond. On my wedding day, I offered to pay for a manicure or pedicure for each bridesmaid, so that we could get ready together in the resort spa.
Before the big day, I decided to make the dreaded bridesmaid dress a pleasant experience for all. I chose a fabric and color and let my bridesmaids choose the design of their dress through Aria. The cost of the dresses also came from my wedding budget. I had the dresses shipped directly to my bridesmaids, so that they could have them tailored to their liking. Since our ceremony was barefoot on the beach, I suggested a shoe type and color for the reception, and let my bridesmaids choose a pair from their closet collections. I made my bridesmaid gift their accessory, a hammered silver hook bracelet from Sonya’s Limited, the local company that originally began crafting the traditional island bracelet more than 40 years ago.
But the single most important thing I did as a bride to keep my bridesmaids happy was hire a wedding coordinator. SunCelebrations, the company I now coordinate with, executed my plans and took care of everything on my wedding day so that my bridesmaids and I could just relax and enjoy. In previous experiences as a bridesmaid, I had done everything from bleach outdoor chairs in the heat, to run last-minute beauty errands in the snow. I did not want my bridesmaids setting-up my ceremony or doing any of the dirty work (especially since they were on vacation too). Hiring a wedding coordinator was essential to keeping my wedding party happy.
What it takes to be a bridesmaid that remains friends with the bride after her wedding . . .
First and foremost, only say “yes” to a bride’s request to be a bridesmaid if you truly want to be a part of her big day. Particularly in situations where you’re a cousin or distant relative of the bride, you have the right to say “no thank you” upfront in a tasteful manner. Consider before agreeing if you really have the time and money necessary to devote to the wedding.
To maintain your sanity during stressful or frustrating times, remember that being a bridesmaid is an honor. By asking you to be part of her wedding, the bride is acknowledging that you have made a significant impact on her life. There are likely a handful of her family members and friends that are jealous they were not asked to be bridesmaids.
To not break the bank as a bridesmaid, consider making a gift for the bride. The couple will be overwhelmed with store-bought gifts from their wedding registries, so a handmade gift will stand out in a positive way. The most meaningful gift I received as a bride was a wedding keepsake box from my maid of honor. She simply covered a hat box with magazine cutouts of phrases and photos related to my wedding. The thought and time she put into it meant so much to me.
To keep the bride happy, try to plan ahead for a stress-free wedding day. Plan for the bridal party to get pedicures together at a spa, or participate in a calming activity like a yoga class. Surprise the bride with fruit and champagne to celebrate before the ceremony.
To stay organized, try creating an inbox folder for all wedding-related e-mails the bride and fellow bridesmaids send you. Put mailed invitations on your fridge so that you don’t have to bug the bride for times or directions on days of wedding events, like bridal showers.
Regarding the bridesmaid dress, try to happily wear whatever the bride asks you to. It boils down to a few hours wearing a dress you never have to wear again. Every guest is aware that your dress was the bride’s choice, so they will not judge you if it is a train wreck. Afterward, give your bridesmaid dress to a local Glass Slipper Project that recycles formals for girls to wear at school dances, who could not otherwise afford them. Just in case the bride ever asks, you gave the bridesmaid dress to a good cause.
In the end remember . . .
Brides: Don’t get caught-up in the silly details. Focus your attention on what your wedding is all about – you and your fiancé committing your lives to one another.
Bridesmaids: It is only one day, so just give it to the bride and enjoy.
Snorkels and Signs
“I think I bought this snorkel at a grocery store,” I told my husband Greg as I unpacked the shoddy children’s pool toy with my scuba mask and fins. We decided to spend a recent Sunday at Cramer’s Park in a class to improve our snorkel skills. Well, I must have cleared the ocean water from that crappy snorkel 100 times before the end of the class. Each time a wave came along or I tilted my head slightly too far in one direction, I had a mouthful of water. Now that I live on an island, it was time to invest in an ocean-worthy snorkel.
Cindy, Captain Miles Sperber (owner of Caribbean Sea Adventures) & Ashley
Soon after, my boss Cindy and I had just spent a long Saturday working a wedding. So she nicely shifted our weekend to Sunday/Monday and arranged for us to sail to Buck Island and snorkel with Caribbean Sea Adventures. Because we provide concierge services to clients of SunCelebrations and Vacation St Croix, it is important for us to be in-the-know on island activities and be able to make recommendations from personal experience. Cindy and I ended up rushing just to make the boat that morning, so I had no time to stop into a scuba shop and again toted the kid’s snorkel along. Luckily, Caribbean Sea Adventures had the boat stocked and I was able to borrow a good one.
Scuba Cindy heads to the ocean floor
Cindy, a former crew member on Big Beard’s sails to Buck Island, was an excellent guide during our snorkel. Although we spent part of it pelted by rain, it was calm underwater. We saw vibrant fish, gorgeous coral and a host of barracuda. Because Buck Island is a marine park, it is well marked with underwater signs. Some note the snorkeling path, others caution that touching coral kills it, while others denote types of coral commonly found on the reef. Cindy and I shared a laugh about a question she often received while leading snorkel tours of tourists, “why wasn’t there a squirrel fish right next to the squirrel fish sign?”
Ashley & Cindy - A great day at the "office"
Next stop was Chenay Bay for a beach barbeque. Just as we pulled up to the resort and we were finishing our rum punch, I accidentally knocked Cindy’s cup off the stern of the sailboat. Not wanting to litter, I dove in after it. Since the cup was clear and impossible to see underwater, I decided to make amends with Mother Ocean by picking up other pieces of trash on the shallow bottom.
Ashley explores the reef at Buck Island Reef
A great day with Captain JP aboard Wavedancer
I was delving down for what looked like a sock when nearby I saw . . . a snorkel! Partially covered by seaweed, but otherwise I had found a pristine, adult snorkel by US Divers.
Another opportunity to snorkel came up not long after. Our friend Chuck, owner of The Palms at Pelican Cove, invited us to join him for a night snorkel off the shore near his home. While we practically had to drag Greg and Cindy to get in the ocean at night, all of us were excited to see what nocturnal creatures would be out. We happen to pick a night with a strong ocean surge, making it next to impossible to swim. We managed to see and touch a couple of amazing things – a sea star and sea cucumber. A few fish looked panicked by the crazy current, but for the most part everything was in-hiding.
Barracuda!
Chuck said that of the 250 plus snorkels he’s taken off the Palms beach, the conditions that night were the worst. A sign we should probably have accepted – when sea life is swimming for cover, you probably should be too! However, it was a great experience for the three of us to get accustomed to the ocean at night for future snorkel and scuba diving adventures.
Complementary rum punch hits the spot after snorkeling!
Lessons learned:
- Use pool toys in pools, not oceans.
- Take “professional development” days off with your colleagues.
- Care for the earth and enjoy when a good deed comes back to you.
- Appreciate the kindness of new friends.
- Take adventures that push you out of your comfort zone.
- Watch for signs, in the ocean and in life.
Girlfriends of the Caribbean – A Girlfriends Getaway
… Below is a reprinting of my blog entry from April 4th 2009, due to a technical difficulty, past blog entries were deleted. But this one was worth reprinting!!
Last week was so much fun! I finally stopped and took some time to smell the frangipani and marvel in the beauty that is St Croix.
I always enjoy having visitors to the island, because it offers an opportunity to see the island through new eyes and a different perspective and also gives me the chance to share the home that I’ve fallen in love with. Last week, following the growing trend, my girlfriends decided to descend upon St Croix for a long weekend vacation. It all started with my dear college friend Deseree. We have been talking about the possibility of her moving down here and helping out with SunCelebrations and she needed a break from the daily grind. So she finally chose a 4-day weekend to visit. Next thing I knew, she mentioned that her sister-in-law, Shelly, wanted to join as a getaway for her birthday… I said “absolutely, more the merrier”… so Annette and then Missy joined on too. And while we were planning, I happened to get an FB instant message from another college friend – Barbara. I told her that the girls were planning to come down and she should join up – so she booked her ticket the next day for a week. She arrived on the Sunday before the rest of the gals who arrived on Thursday. This was just perfect as both Barb and I dive, but the others don’t… so we took advantage of the great weather and dove every morning until their arrival. Here’s a chronicle of our adventure to inspire your girlfriends getaway – enjoy!!
Day 1 – Barb arrives:
Barb arrived on a very busy day for St Croix – so many choices of fun things to do! There was the Chili Cook Off to benefit the United Way out at Divi, The Starving Artists Fair and my favorite, the Slow Down dinner out at the VI Sustainable Farm Institute. So, I picked her up at the airport, we threw her suitcase in the trunk and got on the road. First we stopped at the Starving Artists Fair for the last hour. Jamesie and the All Stars were playing. I just love them!! They are a “scratch band” who play authentic Virgin Islands music called “Quelbe”. Its kind of like Crucian folk music and is sort of like a Caribbean Blue Grass. Its fun, lively and just makes me happy every time I hear it. Both Barb and I were a little hungry, but didn’t want to spoil our appetites (we were heading to the Slow Down dinner), so I introduced her to Caribbean pate (pat-AY). These are deep fried dough pockets with a savory filling of beef, chicken, salt fish or conch. Delish! We had them with some homemade hot sauce and homemade ginger beer. A perfect intro to island life.
We brought a bottle of my favorite - Red Guitar
After walking around a bit and checking out some vendors, we headed up into the “rainforest” (really a humid tropical forest but lets not get technical) to the VI Sustainable Farm Institute at Creque Dam farm. I had told Barb she was in for a treat, but she had no idea! The Slow Down dinners have quickly become an island favorite and are offered once or twice a month by invitation – and they sell out FAST! I was so excited to have finally been invited to one that was not on the same night as a wedding I was coordinating (jeez guys could you please check MY schedule LOL) so I went ahead and bought tickets. Now, knowing Barb, I knew that not only would she enjoy the organically grown and locally produced 6 course gourmet meal – but she’d love the farm itself too! After all, Barb was expecting 23 baby chickens upon her arrival back home. The VISFI is such a magical place. Tucked into a breathtaking valley on the West end of St Croix, Ben Jones has carefully crafted his dream of having a self-sustaining farm institute that teaches others in our community and abroad how to live more in synch with the environment and create a health lifestyle. I’m always impressed when I got out there that these folks truly practice what they preach. The community center was built with sustainable hardwoods that were harvested by an environmental and employee conscious company in Guyana. The farm itself is powered by solar and wind generated power (but don’t worry folks, they have Wi-Fi!) and is surrounded by organic farm beds. They are both ICO and USDA certified organic – the only farm in the Caribbean with this well-earned status.
Founder Ben Jones tells us about the next course
The meal was AMAZING! We brought our own wine – my favorite “Red Guitar” mmmm and each course was narrated by founder Ben Jones. He explained the menu items and told us a bit about how they were farmed, and about the plants and the farm itself. Our first course was an organic bruschetta appetizer that was to-die-for, followed by a rabbit soup.
This was the first time that I tried rabbit (tastes like chicken!). I grew up with bunnies and so had a little trepidation, but figured I’d be adventurous. It was good. That was followed by a yummy organic salad and the main course of our local Senepol beef with local root vegetables. Dessert was a local pumpkin cake with a sauce from a plant that I can’t remember but it was moist and excellent. I HIGHLY recommend snagging tickets to the next Slow Dinner if you can. They aren’t cheap – go for about $60pp, but the proceeds benefit the farm programs and the meal and atmosphere are so worth it. This is a truly enjoyable slow , dining experience. www.visfi.org
Days 2 – Diving the pier:
Well, I have a confession to make. After all my years living and diving on St Croix, I had never been diving at the Frederiksted pier. So, my great friends Kelly & Kevin Culp took us out for a late afternoon shore dive. Holy cow – have I been missing out!!! This was an absolutely amazing dive and hands down my favorite dive spot on the island! There were SO MANY FISH… this is also the place to see octopus and seahorses. We didn’t see either of those that afternoon, but we did see a very large green sea turtle happily swimming along, schools and schools of brightly colored fish (I won’t bore you with ALL the names), and baby trunk fish that look like polka-dotted marbles (so cute!). It was a great dive and we followed it up with a casual beachside dinner at Coconuts with Kevin’s parents who were also visiting.
Days 3-5
Diving with N2 the Blue. I usually dive with SCUBA because its easy for me to jump on the boat in Christiansted. But, they were full the morning I called and Barb and I had rented equipment from N2 the Blue in Frederiksted for our shore dive at the pier the day prior… so we called them up first thing in the morning and totally lucked out as they had spots for us on their boat (they only take out 6 divers max). Derek and Anna, the owners are great. Derek had actually certified me as a diver years ago when he worked for Cane Bay Dive Shop, but I hadn’t dove with him since. Derek was our dive master and Anna, his wife, captained the boat. They were so warm and welcoming and best of all RELAXED that we ended up diving with them all week and loved every minute of it. We dove the deep wrecks out at Butler Bay (AWESOME) and reefs off the west end (we had to stay West due to the swells that week). Saw lots of turtles, rays, schools of fish – lots of good stuff. I HIGHLY recommend diving with N2 the Blue. Fantastic! Thanks guys!!
… continue on Day 5.
Barb and I finished up our morning dives – changed into dry clothes and headed to the airport to pick up the girls!! Let the GIRLFRIENDS GETAWAY begin!! We made a quick stop at Plaza Extra to load up the cooler with CRUZAN RUM and some mixers to meet them at the airport. Yes folks, we were bartending in the parking lot at the airport -
Beach sign at the Palms - designed by yours truly!
you’ve got to love that kind of a welcome when you get St Croix! We met the girls, got their luggage and gave them a cocktail, then headed over to the Palms at Pelican Cove . I simply love this place. When friends and family visit – this is where I have them stay. Affordable, beautiful and I strongly believe the best customer service on the island. Owners Chuck and Joyce live on property and truly make you feel like a guest in their home when you stay there. General Manager, Julie Printy, is fantastic and always has a huge smile for everyone. Pat and Dickie are there to welcome you with a cool rum punch at the front desk. Rooms have been recently upgraded with new furniture from
Indonesia and all rooms have ocean views. Its about a 100 step walk at most to the beach. You have a great view of Buck Island and dining is literally beachside. As someone with an animal science degree, I also love their dedication to the environment and conservation of their active sea turtle nesting beach. I’ve worked directly with Chuck and Joyce on conservation efforts and applaud them for all that they do to improve their property and keep it safe for our endangered sea turtles. Chuck is also an avid snorkeler and personally leads snorkel tours through the reef on the property (see Day 6).
After changing into more comfortable beach attire, we all headed over to the bar and had an early dinner along with more rum! I had the fish and chips which were sooooo yummy!! That night we all relaxed and had an early night.
Day 6
The girls relaxed in the morning beachside, I had some work to catch up on, needed to talk shop with Deseree and took my adorable new kitten Boddhi to the vet for his second shots. My vet just opened her new hospital and the day before had won an award for her dedication to the environment. Sugar Mill Veterinary hospital is not only beautiful and state-of-the-art, but totally green and powered with solar and wind. Oh and I have to give props to my friend Kevin Culp who headed up the project. Great job!!
Say Cheese!
That afternoon, Chuck had invited us to join him and some other hotel guests on a snorkeling adventure to a spot he had “discovered” out East near Pt Udall (the easternmost point of the US). Yes, the owner of the hotel took a caravan of guests, including some lively gals, snorkeling just because he loves to. Not only did he lead us out there, guide the tour and have a cooler full of beer for us afterwards, but he provided each of us with a photo CD of the adventure the next day. Chuck, you rock! This was a great little spot, sheltered by barrier reef (that surrounds 3/4 of the island).
Squid are so beautiful
We saw lots of little fish swimming among the coral heads, a school of squid and some trunk fish (my favorite). A great time was had by all.
After the snorkeling, we stopped at “America’s Cheeseburger in Paradise” a fun, inexpensive and casual spot with the best – yes you guessed it – burgers! Later that evening, we headed downtown to walk around and drink some suds at the Ft Christian Brew Pub where local band Lumbergh was playing. Good times!
Day 7
A gorgeous day at Sandy Point
Some of the girls decided to take it easy and hang at the beach then do some shopping downtown. Today was also Shelly’s birthday, so Barb, Shelly and I joined a couple of my friends at the world famous Domino Club for breakfast – eggs, biscuits and sausage gravy – oh yum!! Of course, we took some time to see the “beer drinking pigs” and then we headed off to Sandy Point. Hands down the most beautiful beach on St Croix.
Picnic lunch at Sandy Point with yummy sandwiches from Schooner Bay Market
Sandy Point is a wildlife refuge and only open from 10am to 4pm on Saturday and Sunday from approximately October thru May. Its closed May through October because it is critical nesting habitat for the endangered Leatherback sea turtle. We spent the day floating in the warm Caribbean Sea and body surfing, had lunch on the beach (you have to bring it in, there are no facilities – this is a truly pristine beach) and headed back to meet up with the rest of the gang for a sunset sail.
Girlfriends set sail
One of the gals, Annette, gets a bit sea sick, so she opted to stay at the Palms on dry land and relax beachside. Not too shabby. The rest of us headed into Christiansted to jump on board Caribbean Sea Adventures’ 26-passenger sailing trimaran, Wave Dancer. And we lucked out too because for us it was a private sail!
A spectacular Caribbean sunset
Originally, we had planned to head out on the World Ocean School sailing schooner the Roseway but it doesn’t do sunsets on Saturdays.
However, we were all thrilled to death with Captain JP and his crew who pampered us with bottomless cups of rum punch and ordered up one of the best Caribbean sunsets that I’ve seen in awhile. Kudos to JP and crew!
Chocolate cake at Savant - Happy Birthday Shelly!
After the sail, we picked up Annette and headed off for Shelly’s birthday dinner at one of my favorite restaurants – Savant. Not only does it have excellent food (and you MUST try the charbroiled calamari) but, its got some celebrity style as well. Owner Tom Miller’s wife Kate (Bartoldus) Miller was a movie set designer on films like Town & Country, Unbreakable, The Sixth Sense, Fallen, Chasing Amy & 12 Monkeys. She designed and sculpted the super sexy back patio that is like dining in a garden amongst the ruins of an old plantation. The booth benches are sculpted into the wall. Its got this Moroccan, Southern feel that just oozes romance.
Picture Time!
I absolutely love dining here, sipping wine from their great wine list and have several events lined up here over the next few months. And the girls totally agreed that it was just super fab! We dined on an eclectic mix of Caribbean, Mexican, Thai fusion until our bellies were full and then topped it off with decadent chocolate cake, complete with birthday candle.
Day 8
Its always sad to see friends go. We made a trip to the local warehouse store to pick up the obligatory Cruzan Rum and travel boxes to check on the plane (fyi our USVI Dept of Tourism has a deal with the airlines so there is no additional baggage fee for booze boxes!). We also stopped at the grocery store to pick up bottles of locally produced Miss Anna’s hot sauce which makes great gifts. The drive to the airport was lively and as we waived goodbye, I knew they were planning their next St Croix Adventure as they said “Next time we’ll be here for the whole week!”.
If you’d like more information on the activities mentioned above or would like for us to put together your own customized Girlfriends Getaway to St Croix contact me cindy@suncelebrations.com or visit our website www.suncelebrations.com and check out “Group Travel”
